I don’t have to tell you how much acne sucks. This site is called ‘Screw You Acne’ for a reason. Acne is so tough because it hold us back from living life to the fullest, especially when it comes to socializing.
If you’re a young man who suffers from acne, then I’m sure you’ve been frustrated because you feel like acne is preventing you from getting girls. Today, I want to discuss the steps to first get rid of your acne, and then how to create the mentality and personality of a bona fide lady killer.
Step 1: Plan To Get Rid of Acne
The best way to meet girls with acne is to not have it in the first place. Easier said than done, I know. However, this entire site is dedicated to helping people get clear skin. If you follow the Quick Start Guide to a T, and stay consistent and patient, your skin will eventually clear up.
Yes, you can still have a dating life with acne but it would be easier to do it with a clear face. This is going to take a bit of time though, so in the meantime we’re going to discuss what steps you can take to meet girls.
Step 2: Give Yourself Permission
If you think about it, it sounds silly to have an article dedicated to meeting girls if you have acne. While it’s a major problem guys face, it’s a problem of their own creation.
“You don’t need permission from anyone but yourself to flirt and date girls.”
You are the gatekeeper to meeting women. You control your actions and fate.
Guys assume that no girls will like them with acne, but there’s no explanation for that. It’s just an assumption.
Sure, girls probably don’t find guys with blemishes more attractive than they would that same guy with clear skin, but if it bothers them that’s their problem. If you think a girl is cute and want to talk to her or ask her out, do it.
What’s holding you back is the perception that she will automatically reject you because of your skin. You don’t know that, and you shouldn’t assume that. You should assume that she thinks your the most handsome and desirable man in the world. If you don’t feel comfortable thinking that then you need to work on boosting your self esteem.
In the event a girl does reject you, you won’t likely find out why. Girls don’t often give explanations for rejecting a guy or breaking up with him, and if they do, they’re probably making an excuse. Don’t assume your skin was the only reason though.
Step 3: Prep For Success
While there are myriad of factors that women find attractive in men, one of the most significant, if not the most significant is looks. This is why acne has such a powerful perception on guys because they assume that it automatically disqualifies them from the dating game.
Okay, so your skin isn’t perfect, but that’s only a small part of the whole package. There’s still so much more to looking good. Here’s a few ways to improve your looks:
- Get a good haircut and style it
- Buy some new clothes
- Get a cool pair of shoes
- Whiten your teeth
- Hit he gym and put on some muscle
When you think about it, a few red dots on your face are actually pretty insignificant to who you are.
Step 4: Learn How To Talk To Girls
Most of you reading this are probably in your late teens or early 20’s. This is the time in most guys lives when they first start seriously dating and sleeping with women. When acne comes in to the picture, it makes things a whole lot worse.
I never even kissed a girl until I went to college. I had terrible social anxiety, and acne only made things worse. I had a hard time looking people in the eye and holding lengthy conversations because all I could think about was that they were staring at my skin.
How ridiculous does that sound?
Unfortunately, that’s how it was for me, and it’s how i suspect it is for a lot of other guys. That’s why I wrote this article.
If you follow the steps above, now the only thing that is left is talking to girls. This is a complex subject, one that can easily fill an entire website. What I want to refer you to are some websites I think are good for guys looking to learn how to meet girls:
It will probably take more time to learn how to get good with girls, than it will to clear your skin if you follow the quick start guide. Nonetheless, there’s no reason to delay.
Step 5: Just Do It
There’s nothing left to say here. The only thing you can do at this point is to take action. No one is going to hold your hand through this process, it’s all up to you.
You can do it.
I wrote this article because while girls can be bitchy and frustrating, life is definitely better with them then without them.
Dating girls is irreplaceable, and there’s no reason to deny yourself those experiences because of some blemishes.
If you have any questions or comments, feel free to post them below.
Best of luck!
P.S. Do you use Tinder?
Tinder is one of the hottest dating apps out there. It also allows you to meet girls through the phone instead of approaching them. This makes things easy if you still have some anxiety about your skin.
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